The Difficult Conversations You Need to Have with your Kids
Every parent stresses about the day their children are old enough to have “the talk”. Should you approach them? Will they come to you? If they do, you worry about what you’ll say and how to say it. Regardless if you want your children to stay babies forever, they will grow up and it is your parental duty to prepare them.
Giving “the talk” to your child does not have to be traumatic for either of you. You know your child better than anyone. Communicate to them the way they will be most comfortable. Try having a conversation through make believe, music, art or even story telling. No matter what way you decide to connect, your child should feel loved. Let them know you care about them and want the best for them.
What should you talk to your children about?
Drugs & Alcohol
Before you begin your conversation, educate yourself. Using the internet, books or other resources, learn about drugs so you can help answer any questions. A great way to approach the subject of drugs & alcohol is to simply ask your child what they know. This will give you the opportunity to provide them with factual information. Make sure they completely understand the information you are giving. If you have to talk to your children about a drug problem, don’t shy away from rehab and courses at freedomdrugrehab.com/therapeutic-training-routines-course/.
Sex
It is recommended to start your discussion about sex and sexuality early. If your child has passes early childhood and you still haven’t given “the talk” it is not too late! Many parents wonder how much they should divulge to their kids. Sexuality includes how male and female bodies work, puberty, reproduction, different types of relationships, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and how to prevent pregnancy. Let you child know exactly what sex is. This doesn’t mean describing absolutely everything in detail; keep your discussion age-appropriate.
Education
Children should know from a young age the importance of an education. Ask them how they feel about school, what their favorite subjects are and encourage them to pursue what they love. When children understand how education can affect their future, they can make better choices. Be proactive in your children’s school. Show that you are invested in their future and they will most likely follow suit.
Safety & Security
Although this talk doesn’t involve the possibility of embarrassment, it is still vital to the well-being of your child. Discuss possible scenarios with solutions. For example, if there is a fire, who do you call? The fire department. Who should you call if you’re lost? The police.
No matter what “the talk” entails, having these discussions with your child can greatly affect their future. Choose to talk with your child, not at them & good luck!
Author Bio: Annette Hazard wrote this with Stanley Martinson. Annette often writes about family and health issues, and is a mother of one.
